For 30 years, my father made me believe I was adopted – I was shocked to find out why
For thirty years, I believed I was adopted, abandoned by parents who couldn’t support me. But a trip to the orphanage shattered everything I thought I knew.
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I was three years old the first time my dad told me I was adopted. We were sitting on the couch, and I’d just finished building a tower out of brightly colored blocks. I imagine he smiled at me, but it was the kind of smile that didn’t reach his eyes.
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“Honey,” he said, placing his hand on my shoulder. “There’s something you should know.”
I looked up, grabbing my favorite stuffed bunny. “What’s wrong, Dad?”
“Your real parents couldn’t take care of you,” he said, his voice soft but firm. “So your mother and I stepped in. We adopted you to give you a better life.”
“Real parents?” I asked, tilting my head.
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He nodded. “Yes. But they loved you very much, even if they couldn’t support you.”
I didn’t understand much, but the word “love” made me feel safe. “So you’re my dad now?”
“That’s right,” he said. Then he hugged me, and I snuggled into his chest, feeling like I belonged.
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Six months later, my mother died in a car accident. I don’t remember much about her, just a blurry image of her smile, soft and warm, like the sun on a cold day. After that, my father and I were left alone.
At first, things weren’t so bad. Dad took care of me. He made me peanut butter sandwiches and let me watch cartoons on Saturday mornings. But as I got older, things started to change.
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When I was six, I didn’t know how to tie my shoes. I cried, frustrated, as I pulled at the laces.
Dad sighed heavily. “Maybe you inherited that stubbornness from your real parents,” he murmured softly.
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“Stubbornness?” I asked, blinking.
“Just… figure it out,” he said, walking away.
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He said things like that a lot. Every time I struggled at school or made a mistake, he blamed my “real parents.”
When I turned six, Dad organized a barbecue in our yard. I was excited because all the neighborhood kids were coming. I wanted to show them my new bike.
As the adults stood around talking and laughing, Dad raised his glass and said, “You know, we adopted her. Her real parents couldn’t handle the responsibility.”
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The laughter faded. I froze, clutching my plate of fries.
One of the mothers asked, “Oh really? How sad.”
Dad nodded, taking a sip of his drink. “Yeah, but she’s lucky we took her in.”
The words sank like stones in my chest. The next day at school, the other kids whispered about me.
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“Why didn’t your real parents love you?” a boy mocked.
“Are they going to send you back?” a girl laughed.
I ran home crying, hoping Dad would comfort me. But when I told him, he shrugged. “Boys will be boys,” he said. “You’ll get over it.”
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On my birthdays, Dad started taking me to visit a local orphanage. He’d park in front of the building, point to the children playing in the yard, and say, “See how lucky you are? They don’t have anyone.”
When I reached adolescence, I dreaded my birthday.
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The idea that I wasn’t wanted followed me everywhere. In high school, I kept my head down and worked hard, hoping to prove I was worth keeping. But no matter what I did, I always felt like it wasn’t enough.
When I was 16, I finally asked my dad about my adoption.
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“Can I see the papers?” I asked him one night while we were having dinner.
He frowned and stood up from the table. A few minutes later, he returned with a folder. Inside was a single page: a certificate with my name, a date, and a stamp.
“See? Proof,” he said, tapping the paper.
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I stared at him, not knowing what to feel. He seemed real enough, but there was something about him that seemed… incomplete.
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Still, I didn’t ask any more questions.
Years later, when I met Matt, he immediately saw through my walls.
“You don’t talk much about your family,” he said to me one night as we sat on the couch.
I shrugged. “There’s not much to say.”
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But he didn’t let it go. Over time, I told him everything: the adoption, the teasing, the visits to the orphanage, and how I always felt like I didn’t belong anywhere.
“Have you ever thought about looking into your past?” he asked me gently.
“No,” I said quickly. “Why would I? My father already told me everything.”
“Are you sure?” he asked, his voice kind but firm. “What if there’s more to the story? Wouldn’t you like to know?”
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I hesitated, my heart pounding. “I don’t know,” I whispered.
“Then let’s find out together,” he said, squeezing my hand.
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For the first time, I wondered: What if there was more?
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The orphanage was smaller than I had imagined. Its brick walls were faded, and the playground equipment at the entrance looked worn but well-maintained. My palms were clammy when Matt parked the car.
“Are you ready?” he asked, turning to me with his firm, reassuring gaze.
“Not really,” I admitted, clutching the bag like it was a lifeline. “But I guess I have to be.”
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We walked in, and the air smelled faintly of cleaning products and something sweet, like cookies. A woman with short gray hair and kind eyes greeted us from behind a wooden desk.
“Hi, how can I help you?” he asked with a warm smile.
I swallowed. “I… I was adopted here when I was three. I’m trying to find out more about my biological parents.”
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“Of course,” he said, frowning slightly. “What’s your name and the date of your adoption?”
I gave her the information my father had told me. She nodded and began typing on an old computer. The clacking of the keys seemed to echo in the quiet room.
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Minutes passed. His brow furrowed. He tried again, flipping through a thick folder.
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Finally, he looked up, his expression apologetic. “I’m sorry, but we have no record of you here. Are you sure this is the right orphanage?”
My stomach tightened. “What? But… this is where my dad said I was adopted. I’ve been told that my whole life.”
Matt leaned forward and looked through the papers. “Could there be a mistake? Maybe another orphanage in the area?”
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She shook her head. “We keep very detailed records. If you were here, we would know. I’m so sorry.”
The room spun as his words sank in. Suddenly, my whole life seemed like a lie.
The car ride home was made tiresome by the silence. I stared out the window, my thoughts racing.
“Are you okay?” Matt asked quietly, looking at me.
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“No,” I said, my voice shaking. “I need answers.”
“We’ll get them,” he said firmly. “Let’s talk to your father. He owes you the truth.”
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When we arrived at my father’s house, my heart was beating so loudly I could barely hear anything else. The porch light flickered as I knocked on the door.
It took a moment, but the door opened. My father stood there, wearing his old plaid shirt, his face scrunched up in surprise.
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“Hello,” he said, his voice cautious. “What are you doing here?”
I didn’t bother being nice. “We went to the orphanage,” I blurted out. “They don’t have any records of me. Why would they say that?”
His expression froze. For a long moment, he said nothing. Then he sighed heavily and stepped back. “Come in.”
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Matt and I followed him into the living room. He sat down in his recliner and ran a hand through his thinning hair.
“I knew this day would come,” he said softly.
“What are you talking about?” I asked, my voice breaking. “Why did you lie to me?”
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He looked at the ground, his face clouded with regret. “You weren’t adopted,” he said, his voice barely audible. “You are your mother’s child… but not mine. She had an affair.”
The words hit me like a punch. “What?”
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“She cheated on me,” she said, her voice bitter. “When she got pregnant, she begged me to stay. I agreed, but I couldn’t look at you without seeing what she’d done to me. So I made up the adoption story.”
My hands were shaking. “Have you lied to me my whole life? Why did you do it?”
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“I don’t know,” he said, his shoulders slumping. “I was angry. Hurt. I thought… maybe if you knew you weren’t mine, it would be easier to handle. Maybe I wouldn’t hate her so much. It was a stupid thing to do. I’m sorry.”
I blinked back tears, my voice shaking with disbelief. “You forged the papers?”
He nodded slowly. “I had a friend who worked in records. He owed me a favor. It wasn’t hard to make them look real.”
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I couldn’t breathe. The teasing, the visits to the orphanage, the comments about my “real parents” had nothing to do with me. It was her way of coping with her grief.
“I was just a child,” I whispered. “I didn’t deserve this.”
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“I know,” he said, his voice breaking. “I know I’ve failed you.”
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I stood up, my legs shaking. “I can’t do this now. Rest assured, I’ll take care of you when the time comes. But I can’t stay,” I said, turning to Matt. “Let’s go.”
Matt nodded, his jaw tight as he looked at my father. “You’re coming with me,” he said quietly.
As we walked out the door, my dad called after me. “I’m sorry. I really am.”
But I didn’t turn around.
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